The term narcissism gets thrown around a lot and, since it exists on a continuum, some cases are more obvious than others. For example, not all narcissists command the spotlight with their bold, brash personalities. Some narcissists demand the attention of the room by playing the victim or describing their problems as greater than anyone else’s problems. You may not immediately resonate with the idea of having a narcissistic parent or it may be uncomfortable for you to think of them in this way. However, as you begin to explore your childhood through a different lens, a more nuanced picture may emerge, which can help you understand yourself better.